This
past Friday was our first FPU class. I
think I told you that my friend Jessica and I are doing this class together so
she is my accountability partner. Joe
will just be updated as the weeks go along.
He doesn’t spend much money at all, gas and beer each week are about the
extent of it for him so I didn’t press him to go to the class. I handle all of the money in our
marriage. I pay almost everything online
except for a few minor things. I get on
my account and check my balance every day.
I use an app called Checkbook that I use to keep my balance as I use my
debit card 95% of the time for all transactions. I’m a saver by nature, but I’m impulsive,
that is what I need to work on most & that is one of my goals for the
class.
The
first class is obviously an introduction to Dave & also a focus on Baby
Step 1, $1000 in your emergency fund. We
already had this step in place & then some.
For the homework this week we were supposed to fill out our budget for
the month & a small snap shot of our current debt. We also have to log in online & read a
chapter from the book (that I haven’t done yet). The kit comes with everything that is needed
for the class including DVDs of all of the sessions, the work book, Dave’s
book, the envelope system organizer & envelopes, even a pencil &
sharpener. You can actually do the classes
online, but I think going to the class is an easier way to hold yourself
accountable.
For
us, we have 4 debts that I want to work on, the biggest being my car, then the
credit card, then 1 personal loan for our kitchen cabinets, and a 0% interest
loan for our furniture & appliances.
Almost all of our debt is related to building our house. With Dave’s plan, you don’t worry about what
has the highest interest (my credit card! 23% yikes!) you work on paying your
minimum on each debt until the smallest one is paid off, then you continue to
use the minimum from the paid off debt on your other debts, it’s called the
debt snowball.
Taking
the class and having the group discussions, I realized that we are very blessed
and we aren’t that bad of a situation. I
definitely need to work on my impulses and my mindless spending. I like to shop & I really do, like many
people, feel a sense of euphoria when I shop.
I can see how people can get addicted to shopping and literally drain
their savings & max out several credit cards & put themselves in
financial ruin. I am nowhere near that
bad, but I still would like to be less impulsive.
I
did talk a little bit about our medical bills stemming from IVF. We are so unbelievably lucky to have the
coverage that we have (no plan maximum on IVF & IUI), but there are still
bills that come since it’s not 100% covered.
Our DEIVF cycle is a big reason why I wanted to start taking this class
& get our finances in better order.
With having to pay for this cycle out of pocket I really want to get rid
of the extra payments that we have, mainly my credit card & the personal
loan. My car & the 0% interest loan
I am not as worried about. I know a loan
is a loan and the quicker they’re paid off the better so I am going to work
diligently at getting both of those paid off early too, but I don’t feel as
much anxiety as I do with the other two.
The credit card & personal loan also happen to have the highest
interested, the credit card is a whopping 23% and the personal loan is 8%. It sickens me how much interested Chase has
made off of me since we built our house.
I’ll
keep updating as the weeks go on. This
is a 9 week course and I’m really determined to make every one of them. I’ll recap each class to hold myself
accountable & also if any of you are considering it, this will give you a
breakdown of information week by week.
I looked into Dave Ramsey's thoughts on debt for fertility treatment before we did IVF. It was 100% out of pocket for us, and I had some guilt about the other things we could spend that $16,000 on. In case it comes up, know that he obviously does not encourage debt, but everything I found from him said that there are certain things that can't be put off, like family building, and sometimes those medical expenses are a necessary evil. Save up what you can now in order to lessen the impact later, but as long as you're on a fairly tight budget otherwise, you should still be able to knock out those other debts no problem. We saved up for all of IVF plus a few thousand more for FET (wishful thinking, we have no frosties, so that's now part of our adoption fund) but if we were doing multiple rounds of IVF, we would have taken out a loan without question and without guilt. Love love FPU.
ReplyDeleteI'm anxious to see how this goes. I've been looking at taking the class for about a year now. We had to pay for all of our IVF out of pocket and built a new house right before we found we had to travel the IVF path. I would really like to work on eliminating debt and tend to also be an impulse shopper! Good luck! I can't wait to hear all about it!
ReplyDeleteI love debt books, and read Dave Ramsey about 10 years ago. I love a lot of his advice. I will always have savings and not carry credit card debt because of his advice. I'm even trying to talk to my husband about going to a 15 or 10 year mortgage. BUT I will never do a cash system (I don't carry cash) and I think it's fair to do a 0% interest payment plan on something, as long as you can afford it.
ReplyDeleteGirl so pumped for you!!! I am all about living debt-free. You got this!!!
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Oh I love watching our debt go down...I'm the same way. I login in most days to check our balance and re-evaluate the month's spending constantly. Granted...this year is going to be a whole new world with IVF bills, but I think we've set ourselves up the best we can!! I'm interested in hearing what you learn and if I can take away anything for our personal needs.
ReplyDeleteyeah... you know those people who have a legit addiction and max out credit cards and ruin their lives? that was basically me, and still is me a little bit sometimes. i am 90% better but i still impulse shop sometimes. i'm working on it, and paying off those cards. good luck to you though, i might have to check out this class or university thing one day.
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